You want to save the data source changes made via our GridControl, right?
If so, refer to the following help article which contains all necessary information of how to accomplish this task:
How to Make Sure That All Modifications Are Saved
The main idea is to use the database's standard methods to save changes.
I suggest that you call this method in the GridView.RowUpdated event handler. Or choose another moment to save changes. For example, create a Save button and use its OnClick event handler for this purpose. Note that in this case it is necessary to call the PostEditor and UpdateCurrentRow methods as it is described at Posting Data to a Connected Database.
A similar issue has already been discussed in the how can i save changes from the GridControl to database thread.
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